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Welcome to the ATB blog "J & A's Brittanys" where we love to write about, share stories, post videos and pictures featuring our beautiful, well bred Brittany family bird dogs. With their established and recognized hunting heritage our dogs also measure up to the breed standard regarding health, appearance, movement, and temperament. Enjoy the stories of whelping puppies, tips on field training, bragging rights on accomplishments, sharing joys and sorrow, announcements and as the name implies - ALL THINGS BRITTANY! With a love of God, family, friends, and dog we welcome you.

Monday, September 27, 2010

Something to be proud of...

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J & A's Keeper of the Stars of Acton (True)
J & A's High Flyin' Girl of Acton (Piper) 
 J & A's Nash Stream of Kelsey Notch (Nash)
J & A's Buddy Boy - (Buddy)
CH  Triumphants Everything Nice - (Paris)

This past weekend the Northern New England Brittany Club hosted AKC Pointing Dog Hunt Tests at Sharpe's Farm in Hopkinton, NH.  This is the same event where our JackDog along with his daughter Roxie (J & A's Roxie Hoover) earned their final set of qualifying scores to achieve their AKC Junior Hunter title several years ago. Once again this venue proved to be a good one for All Things Brittanys, and for our friends.  For more information about these hunt tests see the AKC Brochure for Pointing Dog Hunt Tests.  Congratulations to Steve, Stephanie, Jim, Pam, Sam and of course to my wonderful husband!



J & A's Superior Brandi

North American Versatile Hunting Dog Association (NAVHDA) :
Natural Ability Test:     NA 108  Prize I

Congratulations to Jim, Lori, Brian, and Cory Turner on Brandi's excellent NAVHDA test score!  This is a very different testing system designed for all versatile hunting dogs.  Dogs and owners/handlers participate in clinics and pre-tests for several months prior to the actual testing.  Brandi's score is in the highest possible level of NA prize awards.  For more information about see  NAVHDA testing program

RAMBLING ON...
John has worked so hard this summer with our crew here while also helping a good friend out with his gundog training program. It's been great for all concerned.  I'm pretty proud of my guy, as well as the Brittanys that are from the J & A's line.  I'm currently updating the Maine Brittany site.  It's going to take longer than I thought, but for a very good reason. 

As breeders of the American Brittany, we have both worked very hard to stay focused on what we believe is the true purpose of this amazing breed - to be a close working gun dog. We have seen several "trends" come and go and managed to survive them.  I can't say we're pleased with where some have taken this breed we love so much.  But then again, we also deal with the lasting effects of so called 'improvements' to the breed from years ago. 

Year ago so the story goes our dogs were noticed by other bird hunters who were out in the field.  People who knew we had Brittanys would come visit and say we needed to literally take them out of the woods and out into the field and the ring.  So we have tried to do that and I'm actually very happy we did.  Every story has a beginning, a middle and an end.  I guess we are somewhere in between the beginning and the middle.

We have taken our time to get involved with field and show events.  Those who know us realize it's really not our cup of tea. It's slow going.  It costs an awful lot of money. Did I mention fixed income?  And before I go any further - having a litter of puppies does not mean financial gain. And we're not doing what we do for monetary reasons so get that out of your head.

But here's what I see:  The few times we feel we can afford to pay entry fees, gasoline, food, travel, and hotel expenses for a competitive event we find our dogs are usually in the ribbons - either Brittanys we personally own or from our J & A line.  And I don't mean because of low entries. I mean to say our beautiful  Brittanys ARE competitive in any given arena.  So what's the importance of this?  It means that the goals we set for our program are measurable.  Saying 'oh yeah, my dogs get on birds, they are birdy, they hunt well' carries with it a certain burden of proof. 

As I continue to update the Maine Brittany site we will dentify the measureable goals, objectives, and purpose of the J & A  Brittanys breeding program.  Thanks in part to the excellent feedback from those who know them best we will list the specific strengths identified within our dogs over the past years and highlight personal successes such as are posted above and elsewhere throughout the blog archives (Bullet, Pippin, Bailey, Treasure and more!)

Take care and as always thank you for your interest and support in ATB - God Bless you and yours!
John, Ann, and our canine crew

Thursday, September 23, 2010

The Long and Winding Road... A Rescued Brittany

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"The long and winding road, that leads to your door, will never disappear, I've seen that road before.  It always leads me here, lead me to your door..." beautiful lyrics to the Lennon/McCartney song came to mind when I was traveling back to ATB yesterday.  I had just transported "Blaze", a Brittany surrendered to New England Brittany Rescue last week and had spent several days with us. There have been a few times that John and I have been in a position to foster, rehabilitate, transport and do a home visit on behalf of all the Brittany organizations.  I wish we could do so much more.  I posted the following comment on Facebook about this most recent experience and the way it has touched my heart.  "Working with NEBR leaves me wishing I could do so much more to help while wondering what went wrong in a particular Brittanys life. Blame can be distributed equally among breeders and owners; Lack of socializing, education, experience, responsibility etc. on one side or the other are some reasons. Life happens, but a commitment to a dog is a commitment to it's entire life."  Our friend Zina commented that it was as great of a responsibility as if it were a child.  She is right.  And the breeder(s) and owner(s) are as if they are parents, sharing that responsibility. I am not one to assign human attributes to an animal and I do not support the concept of guardianship for animals in any way.  But the whole idea, the point I was trying to make is that breeders and owners alike share that responsibility.  I have seen breeders lie about their experience, persuading unknowing and unsuspecting individuals and in the end sell their puppies to people who have no understanding of the particular breed or even what is considered normal puppy behavior.  I'm too close to getting up on my soap box again, I realize this. But Blaze... The first thing any good breeder of purebred dogs will do when learning of a local surrender or rescue of their breed is ask how they can help. Get that dog out of the shelter and into the hands of a reputable breed rescue org.  I was told that not too many Brittanys show up in shelters in one of Maine's major shelters - which is good news.  Second thing the breeder should do is do a 'head count' of where their own pups were sold, recall the last time they heard from the owners, and gain as much information about the rescued dog as possible - especially the birthdate. Even when a pup is sold with the stipulation it must always be returned to the owner no questions ask prior to surrender to a shelter, rescue or humane agents that requirement is not always honored. Quite honestly, I am personally aware of several dogs from one particular breeder frequently showing up in shelters and rescued. This is just wrong.

I spent 7 wonderful days with Blaze.  It was not that I could do so much for him, but we could offer him a place of transition, a place where the other dogs are well rounded, balanced, and happy.  It rubbed off on him. Being an intact male with absolutely no manners we knew he could not stay in the house, especially with JackDog.  So at first a place was set up just for him in the grooming studio.  But Blaze needed to be able to see what was going on around him.  I knew he was up to date on his shots and so were our dogs so we doubled up on a couple of runs and gave him the "corner office."  Within no time at all he had settled into the ATB routine - well, that is with the exception of the free run with the rest of the crew.  I couldn't take a chance with the direct interaction or more importantly, the chance of Blaze running off.  He did enjoy being out with the 30' check cord but oh my! That boy is strong and muscular and I had all I could do to hold on.  I discovered he is like a little puppy and absolutely loved the water though.  He was no trouble at all. The first day or so he barked intermittedly and I had warned a couple of our neighbors we had a rescue dog in residence temporarily.  In the meantime Christine (who probably hates to hear from me by now!) of New England Brittany Rescue was hard at work behind the scenes laying a plan out for Blaze. His second vet visit was scheduled which would include heartworm testing and neutering - required by law for all rescued animals.  I had the paperwork on this side of the border necessary for housing and transporting him further.  And the good news was that a foster home had been found.  The day that he left he received a 'bath in a bottle', coat conditioning, some cosmetic grooming and clipping, and a full body massage.  What a happy boy!  (We can't always house a rescued Brittany here, especially if we have pups on the ground or are expecting a litter.  We are very particular about our interaction with other dogs and even people visiting our crew in those situations.  But I was happy we could help out this time.  And thoughts of Blaze will linger in my heart along with the other rescued Brittanys that briefly came into my life.

Ironically this came about just as we were ready to announce additional news about our fall breeding plan.  I appreciate those who did inquire about Blaze either directly or indirectly.  We do have some exciting news to share in the near future.  Stay tuned!  In the meantime, I am looking forward to an upcoming weekend of Hunt Tests. Nash will try to qualify for his second leg of his Junior Hunter title as will his 'friend' Paris.  John will handle our two youngsters, True and Piper.  They are not a year old so this is really asking a lot of them but we believe they are ready.  And last but not least we were pleasantly surprised to learn that 'Buddy' will also be tested.  The fun part of all of this is yet another weekend shared with good friends and their great dogs... and thank you Steve for offering up the camp for everyone - it's really going to be a great weekend.
Take care and God bless, John, Ann and All Things Brittany

Saturday, September 18, 2010

More achievements from ATB dogs!

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The above collage features J & A's Superior Brandi and J & A's Kelsey Notch Kid of Nash Stream Brandi is the beautiful liver and white girl of Treasure and Gibson.  Nash is son of JackDog and Molly. Both of them have achieved a lot this week/weekend for all of us to brag about! We're so proud!

 
Congratulations are in order again for the All Things Brittany family!  Yesterday, Brandi (Treasure/Gibby pup 09) went for her NAVHDA test for Natural Ability (NA) and came away with a most excellent score and her first NAVHDA title!   This beautiful little liver and white girl who is the spitting image of her mother came away with a NA 108, Prize I !  She scored as high as is possible in each of the levels offered. Not surprising as her grandmother (our Wish) is from the Birch Springs line of Brittanys who have received several NAVHDA breeding awards for their litters of Brittany pups who tested well through NAVHDA. Wish has passed some outstanding hunting instincts along, the evidence of which we see here in each successive generation.  Brandi is owned and loved by the Turner family in Connecticut whose family also includes sweet Miss Jersey (Molly/Jack '10).  Speaking of amazing pups from Molly and Jack, today, Nash (08) received his first qualifying score towards an AKC Junior Hunter title and won his first ribbon!  He needs 3 more qualifying scores (legs) which I have no doubt he will get.  Nash is owned and loved by Steve and Stephanie Stepanian in Massachusetts and also shares his life with the lovely Starr (Wish/Rylee 08), a grand daughter of FC/AFC Coos Rylee who has also proven to carry on with the hunting ability we breed specifically for. We're so proud of these achievements and it is such a joy to share it with our friends and appreciate both families for giving the dogs the opportunity to do what they were born to do - hunt.   I hope we can keep this momentum going when John enters at least one if not more of our own Brittanys at upcoming New England hunt tests!

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Brother & Sister: Each Dual Pointed

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I'm riding high on the afterglow of a really fun and enjoyable weekend spent in Brownfield, Maine with our Brittany clubs fall field trial which I previously alluded to in the last post.  I can truly attest to the fact that the secret of success for this particular event was good friends, good food, good weather and GREAT dogs!   There will be a more formal report forth coming on behalf of Central Maine Brittany Club but I just want to share some of the very special moments and reasons why this is a weekend I'll forever remember and cherish. 

We have a great club to begin with and John and I both enjoy inviting others to come and see what goes on at the various events throughout the year.  And besides, where else are you guaranteed to see such a large number of Brittany dogs all gathered in one place other than a club event?  We love sharing these fun times with all of our friends and even our family from time to time and this week was no exception.  Steph and Stephanie Stepanian who own Nash and Starr have really become an important part of not only All Things Brittany but also of the club we belong to.  For instance Steve dedicated his entire weekend to helping plant the birds on the many courses that the dogs ran.  And Stephanie brought 2 yummy home made chocolate cream pies to share with everyone! Each of their dogs enjoyed the Walking Hunting Dog course at the end of the day and from what I heard did well.  The Walking Hunting Dog stake is a non-regular stake, no points are awarded but it is a very popular stake for bird hunters and their dogs.  Our good friends Sam and Pam Jackson also ran Gibson from what I have heard (I had to leave early on Sunday).  Sam is absolutely John's right hand man in the club and never hesitates to help wherever it is needed.  Pam was not feeling so great over the weekend and kept a low profile but we always enjoy spending time together.  Julie could not be with us this time so she sent Bullet ahead for John to handle in the weekend trials.  Paul and Dawn Hill also drove up all the way from Connecticut with Miss Bailey accompanied by other Brittany friends and their dogs.  There were so many terrific folks there this weekend and I'd love to recall each and every moment with them all but I'd surely leave someone out if I tried.

As it is, I'm pretty tired tonight and still trying to catch up . Another visit to the doctor today and additional treatment for the knee here and it is very sore, I need to go lay down and rest like a half hour ago.  I'll try to catch up with some of the writing later on this week although it may not be possible as life happens this week in a big way. So for now I shall simply leave you with the few photos above and the very proud announcement that J & A's Brittanys now has 2 dual pointed Brittanys out of Jack and Chrissy after this weekend!  Congratulations to Paul and Dawn and Miss Baileybug for winning the CMBC Amateur Derby 1st Place prize and the Dwight Pete Jordan Trophy !!!!!!!!   Bullet and Bailey were braced together on Saturday for the derby.  In separate stakes on Sunday Bullet earned 4th place and Bailey earned 3rd place in the Open stakes.  John handled Bullet and Paul handled Bailey. 

We are looking at the hunt test and field trial schedules closely !!  You know that I strongly believe all these Brittanys are already champions because they win first place in our hearts each and every day.  But it is very rewarding for all the right reasons to experience the pride and joy that comes in these achievements, successes, and awards and most importantly, to share in those moments with their owners.  Will write more articulately again soon and not on the fly so much. But I'm pumped!  Take care and God bless you and yours always,  John, Ann and All Things Brittany

Friday, September 10, 2010

Happiness is a Timberdoodle

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Happiness is a "Timberdoodle!"
 J & A's Timberdoodle of Acton  1/1/05 - 5/2/07
Sire: FC/AFC Coos Rylee
Dam:  Ruby Mountain of Coos

It's the weekend of the Central Maine Brittany Club fall field trial.  At every field trial, I spend a lot of time thinking about Timber, Scooby's father.  I remember calling Ray Gorman on New Years Day 2005 looking for a liver and white Brittany male.  Rays wife Martha said just so happens there is a litter being born right now!  And the rest was history, albeit a short one. It was love at first sight for John, Timberdoodle, and me. I spent the entire first summer of his life training and preparing him for the woods and for his first trial, even though I had no idea what a field trial was. Two times a day we would work together; basic yard work then later bird work. Oh he was something else and I was proud because I can honestly say I trained Timber all by myself! In all fairness though, John was still working about 60 hours a week and he did help me with the birdwork.  On the day of that first field trial Timber and I had a crash course which I'll never forget!  We did get a placement which felt like Olympic Gold!  In time there were offers to bring him south to campaign over the winter months but I wanted to keep him home with me.  The following year, he did go south for training and was on more birds than probably any other dog would have in a lifetime.  He came home a finely tuned athlete, and we were in a position to campaign him ourself.  But it was not to be.  A hidden killer lay deep within his body, a rapidly growing, rare histiosarcosis sarcoma in Brittanys common only to Bernese Mountain Dogs.  Within one month of returning home, after weeks and weeks of tests, visits to vets, specialists and more Timber died on the operating table of a heart attack upon the neurologists discovery of the cancer that had demolished his spine and all the tissue surrounding it... My memories of Timber are rich and wonderful and very special ones of my boy surface at this fall field trial each year. There is usually so much going on that I do not dwell on our loss, but I do take the time to walk that particular course we ran together.  I have also run a pup or two there since losing Timber.  I find it is very difficult.  I ran his son Scooby there the year after Timber died but I was way too emotional, took things way personal and it just hurt.  I was glad to do it though, it was part of my healing.  Now when I walk that same course good memories surround me. Sometimes my eyes fill briefly with tears. But it's okay.  And I would not have missed that brief time of enjoyment with Timberdoodle for anything. We were both robbed, the cancer was a vicious, uncaring thief stealing life from a 2 year old Brittany.  It has taken time to work through.  Timber will be in my heart...always.... forever and always.  

So, our Brittany club's field trial is this weekend and two Brittanys that we bred are entered; littermates Bailey and Bullet. It's the last time they can compete in a derby age stake because they will turn two years old on September 17th.  Bailey is just 1 leg away from her Junior Hunter title and has many significant field placements in both puppy and derby stakes (she placed in derby stakes when still a puppy).  Bullet won first place in the club's field trial derby stakes this past spring which is where he won his first field points.  He is dual pointed, something we are very proud of.  These two littermates also both competed in the American Brittany Club's Eastern Futurity Field Trial and Specialty Show.   Miss Bailey was the 4th place money dog in the Gundog Trial!  Out of Jack and Chrissy you could say we're very proud of them!  Remi who is also out of that litter has also pleased his owner and has proven to be an amazing hunting partner. Other pups from this litter and of this breeding have done amazingly well in the field. Zoey who is out of Jack and Chrissy's first litter (if you read our Facebook page you know this) was here one day last week for a field grooming. She is in New Hampshire and her hunting season for geese began this week. She's another fortunate girl who hunts frequently at a hunting preserve from April through the winter. Roxie is littermate to Zoey and she earned her Junior Hunter title at 15 months old.

We are proud of all our dogs though, here, there, near or far.  Those Brittanys who enjoy life as the families best friend are just as amazing as those who do get out and do some competitive dog events.  Each one is special in their own right and I do not mean to downplay this or feel that other Brittany who do not compete or even hunt are less significant for that is not the case.  We do try very hard to make sure the majority of pups in any given litter do go to hunting families though.  This helps us as breeders to be able to evaluate the progress of our selective breeding program here. And believe me it is very selective.  While I'm thrilled to see the conformation in our Brittanys continue to improve there will never be a time when the hunting instinct and ability is less than what it has always been.  So we know we have some wonderful, well loved dogs out there who are taller and leggier than other Brittanys may be.  They all hunt. They all are loved and well cared for.  (Speaking of size there surely are some Brittanys that are extremely small and tiny but  I don't think that's a problem we're going to see in the near future anyway.)  I find that when I talk about our dogs I am mindful to try to be all inclusive mentioning each one in the same way I try to acknowledge each of our grandchildren equally!!! This weekend I will also enjoy seeing Starr and Nashdog at the field trials! 

It's been awesome for John this summer to be helping out a friend of his with dog training, and who also had one of True's littermates there for the season as well - she's doing fantastic!  We've enjoyed visits from most of the folks who have these pups and frequent updates. If you look back to the archives beginning in October 2009 you can follow the development of these particular pups.  Casper came and visited with us a few afternoons with her owners and John enjoyed offering tips and guidance there.  Miss Brandi recently had her NAVHDA Pre-test for her title there, and the result was if it had been the real test she would have earned the NA Prize I.  Looking forward to seeing how she does.  I really could go on and on and have something so positive to say about all of these pups that are in such wonderful families who not only support our breeding goals but in many cases our own philosophy as well.  

One of these days I am going to simply list the names of all the preserves, trainers, and clubs that J&A's Brittanys are known at to help others who may be looking for places to go with their dogs.

This weekend the field trial will be a lot of fun I am sure - they always are!  The whole month of September consists of weekend after weekend of hunt tests and/or field trials. They go well into the fall too.  In some cases you have to pick and choose because it's impossible to be two places at the same time unless you split into groups of two with your dogs!  We may do that in a couple of instances.  I am anxious to run our two younger ones in a couple of trials and see how they do.  John's worked hard with all of the crew this summer while I've pretty much had to take it very slow due to the knee thing. 

But here's what I am most excited about... True and Piper's first hunting season.   I mean... I do not know when I have looked forward to bird hunting to the extent I am now.  I probably won't be able to do much more than go along for the ride, sit in the truck and take pictures after the fact but I'll be there.  We may even get to take our oldest granddaughter out - she's the one who just turned 10 and shot her first turkey this spring!  Why, recently I was even interviewed for a local paper about our family's hunting history and there will be an article published in October about all of us - how cool is that?!  But I'm looking forward to the day we load Piper and True into the truck, bells, whistles, collars and shotguns all ready and we head down the road for their first hunting excursion.  What is cool is that I know there will be other Brittanys from Treasure and Gibson's litter doing the same thing as far down as Connecticut and far into Canada.  Out of 11 puppies born last October - 8 of them will be in the woods this fall.  That is frosting on the cake!  Not to mention, our other recent litter born in January - the majority of who will also be experiencing their first season and one in particular is the field dog for a Connecticut hunting club.  I am so thankful for the perfect timing and blessing of fall/winter pups and hopeful we will see a repeat of that this year.  Anyway - October 1st cannot come soon enough for me!

Yesterday I started to work on our 'brag book' and the proof was in the pudding.  I gathered all the many letter, certificates, titles, show and field photos to put into one book.  Wow.  It is humbling. We do have a lot to be proud of after all.  In all the right meanings of the word.  I decided it would not be called a brag book.  Instead it will be called The Achievements of J&A's Brittany's.  It's all about the love of the dog, both given and received.  I'm not one to toot my own horn and certainly the winning ways of our dogs are  not the most important thing in our life, but it is an important part of our life. And because of the dogs, so many new friends have come into our life.  Many of whom we will see this weekend at the field trials. We have taken no short cuts here.  We are paying our dues.  We are ever learning, ever growing, ever seeking to improve.  It is hard work what we do, especially so for John these days.  So many of you who follow our blog, who interact with us on Facebook, who call, drop by, write a note - you all mean the world to us.  Without you we could not do what we do, or at least it would not be as enjoyable. YOU have helped the concept of All Things Brittany become what it is.  A family and a community of people who are dedicated to this breed, who are willing to help us continue to do what we do, provide feedback good and bad and become a part of our lives.  We thank you, we thank God for you. 

If you're someone interested in knowing about the latest hunt tests and/or field trial you can contact me directly of course but you can google for New England Pointing Breed hunt tests and field trials, or you can go right to the AKC website.  In the meantime, take care and God Bless!  John, Ann and ATB

Wednesday, September 8, 2010

BLOGGING: Silence Isn't an Option...

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A drizzly, rainy day here in Maine and things are actually on the quiet side for the time being.  This will change rapidly as we prepare to head out for the upcoming Central Maine Brittany Club fall field trial. I'm spending the morning with Rose, Treasure, and JackDog lying nearby. The golden boy was left behind this morning much to his dismay when John headed out for his morning of field work. Pouting would be a good word to discribe his current behavior although I dislike attributing human characteristics to the dogs.  Actually, I dislike it in theory only for I find myself guilty of this more often than not!  Not a problem...

Having just updated the Brittany club's website, checking in on Facebook I decided to take a few minutes and look at a few live feeds of Maine based blogs that I enjoy following.  Our friend Karen Norteman has a really great one called Dog Show Newbie and she just posted about her recent trip and success to Canada with her beautiful Bearded Collie.  Another blog I follow is Mannerly Mutts.  One feature they have is "The Good and The Worrisome" blog list and our very own Maine Hunting and Sporting Dog Owners has been listed in the "The Good" category often in the past.  Another blog of interest is Time 4 Dogs .   These are just a few of several that I follow.  When visiting another blogger's site I enjoy taking a look at the particular blogs they follow or recommend.  Such was the case this morning when I landed on a blog called Silence Isn't An Option (Crisis Management). The post itself is over a year old but I read it with interest and the links that followed.  The title itself resulted in an interesting yet complex outflow of my thoughts. Read on if you dare!

I am a perfect blend of my parents in the way I react to situations. My mother was extremely polite, respectful, and considerate of all people, to the point where she often had her feelings hurt because she did not speak up often for what she believed in.  I never heard anyone speak ill of her. She was definitely not a respector of a person's wealth, position, education or anything thereof.  She viewed everyone on the same level.  My mother was a "NICE" person all the time.  My dad was also a good soul. Although he died when I was young his fairness and kindness towards other people shaped my behavior tremendously.  He taught me being nice does not mean to sugar coat my words or sweeten ulterior motives, although some people view niceness this way. Dad showed it is possible to be nice while remaining strong, adamant and unwavering about issues one feels passionate about, those things that bring about a 'fire in the belly'.  He understood about conflict management but mum did not through no fault of her own. Besides, I doubt that term was even in existance back then.

A recent post here alluded briefly to critical thinking skills. I went back and deleted the reference out of concern that it could be unwise to point so clearly and precisely towards a particular situation.  Speaking of conflict, this same matter continues to evolve into a greater concern.  Mum would have me be polite and advise 'don't say anything, it won't do any good, they won't listen anyway.' And she'd be absolutely right. (They didn't.)  My dad would say 'if anyone can help them out, guide them and educate them, you'd be the one to do it, in a way only you can do it'.  This was also the response of a very good friend of ours when I consulted him about a sanity check regarding my perception of things.  In fact I have been so conflicted I reached out and consulted several experts and experienced individuals with cumulative years of professional experience regarding 'my concerns.'

As the title suggests, I decided silence was not an option and found a way to very nicely address my specific and legitimate concerns in a passive and non-aggressive manner.  There was polite communication however the effort proved to be futile. Nothing has changed and there has been little improvement.  Why did I even bother?

But my dad would be proud of me and mum would understand as they were both experienced dog breeders and lovers of animals.  They would know that I could not stand idly by and see certain things taking place, occurring, or being said without that fire in my belly rising up to the point where I could not contain it.  As I get older I am learning to be more tactful in my approach. Although there are times when there is no time for tact, and a simply straight forward in your face no holds barrred approach is better.  From what I understand, others employed this technique and with about as little success as I have had trying to communicate in my own way. I'm not alone in my concern. So it is back to minding my own business.

But it is good to openly address legitimate concerns in the best possible manner.  There's always too sides to every story. Listening and speaking can all be done critically or uncritically when it comes to taking up the problems of life.  Yet, in the end this particular issue is really NOT my problem and it certainly is NOT part of my life.  Everyone has to simply decide the best way to freely express themself, arrive at a point where we believe we communicated a particular concern in a reasonable and reflective way.  And always with their best interests at heart, in as much as it is possible. You can give someone a suggestion and advice, offering an opportunity for minor changes or adjustments, but you cannot force them to do it if they do not want to.

Heading out now for some well needed one on one ATB therapy, looking in the faces of the Brittanys I love and share my life with.  Take care and God Bless, John, Ann and our canine crew.

Friday, September 3, 2010

Simple Things Just Are

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‎"It is always the simple things that change our lives. And these things never happen when you are looking for them to happen. Life will reveal answers at the pace life wishes to do so. You feel like running, but life is on a stroll. This is how God does things.” Donald Miller

Thursday, September 2, 2010

Hurricane Earl - Tracked to Maine Coast

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FYI:  Current projected track of Hurricane Earl through Saturday morning.